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Mishpatim

02/08/2024 04:53:19 PM

Feb8

This week, I found myself caught in the wild west of internet lawlessness, on the receiving end of expletive filled messages from a total stranger, triggered by an unfavorable review on eBay. After a few attempts at resolving the conflict in a civilized manner, I finally stopped responding to the stranger’s increasingly virulent threats and insults, choosing instead to make a report to eBay about inappropriate...Read more...

Lessons in Unlikely Places

02/02/2024 09:55:00 AM

Feb2

Last weekend I drove over an hour to a town in Connecticut I had never been to.  Granted that describes many towns in Connecticut seven months into living in Cheshire, but this one drew me in because it’s the location of The Book Barn.  If you’re as much of a bookstore aficionado as I am, and you’ve never had the pleasure of visiting this remarkable one in Niantic, you must check it out!

Among the bargains I came home...Read more...

Who's in Charge Here?

01/25/2024 02:57:04 PM

Jan25

In these turbulent times, wouldn’t it be great to have a divine roadmap? Perhaps even a magical insurance policy that prevented accidents and guided us away from dangerous situations? How about a divine bodyguard to give us complete protection, to fight our wars for us, without getting our hands dirty? Wouldn’t it wonderful to have complete confidence in our purpose, knowing that our leadership was...Read more...

Out of the Dark

01/19/2024 10:41:01 AM

Jan19

As we begin this week’s Torah portion, Bo.  Seven plagues have come and gone, everything from frogs to lice to cattle disease.  Each time Pharaoh relents, then grows hard-hearted and stubborn.  And the Israelites remain enslaved.

Now, as the time for the Israelites’ freedom draws near, Pharaoh has grown even more stubborn, so much so that the Torah tells us God now hardens his heart, rather than Pharaoh...Read more...

Grand Designs and Random Events

01/12/2024 12:01:51 PM

Jan12

Maybe it’s due to the start of a new year, but I find myself thinking about patterns lately.  Not visual or tactile patterns; the ones on my mind are less concrete, invisible in fact, to the naked eye.  They pervade our day to day lives, and they have a great deal to do with how we function. 

Do we ever … procrastinate, for example?!  Or are we the...Read more...

Sh'mot

01/05/2024 10:32:53 AM

Jan5

It’s a story we have heard time and again. Jacob and his sons have passed away, and a new Pharaoh has come to power in Egypt. He sees that the Israelites are growing in number and, afraid that they wouldn’t be loyal to Egypt in case of invasion, he decides to enslave them and tries to kill off their male children. Moses, a beautiful boy whose Levite mother could not bear to see him killed, is miraculously saved from death through the...Read more...

Why Forgive When Revenge is an Option?

12/20/2023 04:17:14 PM

Dec20

We humans have a complicated relationship with forgiveness. In pop psychology, forgiveness is very fashionable, touted as the key to personal well-being, the only way forward from the past into a fulfilling future. Let it go. Let bygones be bygones. It’s water under the bridge. Give peace a chance. Bury the hatchet. Close the chapter. Break the chain. Wipe the slate clean. Turn the page. Get over...Read more...

Dreaming Our Way Home

12/14/2023 02:45:19 PM

Dec14

This week finds us midway through the saga of Joseph in Miketz, our weekly Torah portion.  And what a saga it is!  Joseph’s journey is the stuff of great literature, epic drama, even a musical that was, shall we say, a modest success.  Joesph began as a callow youth... terribly good looking, more than a little full of himself, the apple of his father Jacob’s eye.

Joseph is...Read more...

Vayeishev - Where to Start?

12/07/2023 03:15:45 PM

Dec7

This week’s Torah portion, Vayeishev, is a juicy one. It’s the one where Joseph takes center stage, sharing his dreams of superiority with his brothers and parading proudly about in his amazing technicolor dream coat. It’s the one where some of his brothers plot to kill him, but cooler heads prevail, and they settle for faking his death and selling him into slavery instead. It’s the one where his master’s...Read more...

This Too Shall Pass

11/29/2023 04:18:19 PM

Nov29

A story is told of King Solomon, who gave his most loyal servant a most difficult charge.  The King asked him to find something that would make him happy when he was sad and sad when he was happy.  The servant had never failed King Solomon yet, and was confident that if such an item existed in the world, he would find it.  Still the king, perhaps understanding how near to impossible the task would be, told...Read more...

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